Behind the scenes at the White House, Melania Trump may be more influential than many realize. And her impact could be shaping global events.
Amid renewed speculation about the state of their marriage, the first lady is being credited as the “quiet force” behind President Donald Trump’s dramatic reversal on U.S. aid to Ukraine. While Melania continues to avoid the spotlight, multiple sources now describe her as one of Trump’s most trusted and persuasive advisers.
A Private Partnership, Still Powerful
Despite widespread media speculation about distance between the Trumps, those close to the couple paint a different picture.
“They have a very open, conversational relationship,” said Meaghan Mobbs, a defense analyst whose father, General Keith Kellogg, is leading U.S. peacekeeping efforts. “He deeply values her counsel.”
Mobbs, who lives in Kyiv, said Melania has been urging her husband to protect innocent Ukrainian civilians. It’s a message that seems to have had an impact.
From Private Advice to Public Policy
Earlier this month, the Pentagon paused arms shipments to Ukraine. Days later, President Trump announced a surprise new deal to provide billions in military support and impose new sanctions on Russia.
He credited Melania in a private moment:
“I spoke to Vladimir today,” Trump recalled. “And [Melania] said: ‘Oh really? Another city was just hit.’”
Her Background May Be Key to Peace
Born in Slovenia, formerly part of Yugoslavia, Melania has firsthand understanding of regional conflict. Mobbs believes that background could help shape post-war Ukraine.
“Her influence could be very important, and I think she should and could play a huge role,” Mobbs said.
A Relationship That’s Lasted the Test of Time
Donald and Melania Trump met in 1998, married in 2005, and welcomed their son Barron in 2006. Despite tabloid speculation, those close to the couple describe their bond as strong, private, and impactful, particularly now.
She may avoid the cameras, but Melania Trump’s influence behind closed doors is undeniable, especially to the one person who matters most: the president himself.